A MISCONCEPTION OF BEAUTY

What beautiful means to you? 

Actually, I’d a little bit mad and disappointed with some of my friends or co-workers (mostly guys) who treat a good-looking girl more nicely. To be honest, I said this not because I’m jealous. I don’t know what makes that type of person act different between a good-looking girl and the other girl. Even though I can’t blame them for the way they behave like that. I just keep in mind that they’re not good enough hahaha sorry I have to tell the truth. I know, I also can’t deny if there’s a Kpop singer, Korean Actor, or a guy who looks good physically, but it won’t change my behavior to act differently.

Beautiful has a lot of meanings. Beautiful views, face, words, etc. This is so miserable when our media mainstream this presence, captured the standard of beauty based on white skin, slim face, sexy body, and so on. You guys can google what will appears if you type a beautiful girl as the keyword. It might turn out with Thylane Blondeau. No wonder, because google just shown the visual things right? Are we know her exactly?

Yesterday, I saw good news with annoying comments. Adipati Dolken who is the most phenomenal actor guy in Indonesia finally married Canti Tachril. Yup, some of us might didn’t know who’s the girl. I think not knowing Canti is better rather than judging her not beautiful enough instead of Adipati’s ex-girlfriend. Whew, why am I turn out to gossiping an actress? Wait, just called it as case. Since they’re dating everybody like “It’s so lucky to be her” “She’s not pretty enough for Adipati” and so many insulting words come up on Canti’s Instagram. This is so humiliating when most of people still judging by its cover. Maybe there are things that somebody can’t see on Canti’s but it caught on Adipati’s eye. Those things can be the way Canti sang a song, caring for each other, gratitude, or anything else that makes Canti is beautiful just the way she is (I said this not because I know her, only talk random). Or maybe Adipati should be the luckiest guy in the world to got Canti’s heart? 

So, what’s the real meaning of beauty? still, it depends on how people saw and feel. Having or preparing good visual things are necessary but don’t disgrace those things for the important intention of beautiful. Things that all humans must highlight are beautiful isn’t appears physically because these things were just temporary but our act of kindness will arise the beauty obviously.